Time for making that list and checking it twice and you have a loved one on your list who has Autism. You want to get them something that they will enjoy and use, but what direction do you even start to look for that special gift? Thankfully you are reading this blog today, because we have a few ideas to get you on the right path for your holiday shopping. These ideas will help you purchase a gift for that someone special who has Autism, an educator who teachers those with ASD, or parents and caregivers of those with Autism. (These ideas can of course be used for everyone)
Sensory toys are great for all ages and stages of development. The holidays can often be overwhelming to our friends with autism. Crowded spaces, unplanned events or company, changes in routine etc. A sensory toy or activity will help them to remain calm. Please be sure to purchase age and developmentally appropriate toys for your loved one. Teachers love these for their classroom and parents love them for around the house, in the car, medical visits etc., anytime there may be unpredictable circumstances. These items can be found at educational stores, big box stores, or ordered from Amazon.com. Simply google “sensory toys”, “fidget toys” or “therapy toys” for a myriad of ideas.
BOOKS and MOVIES
Of course we highly recommend TaskGalore books for those teachers/parents on your list!! Hahaha! We all know how helpful these books are for them in the classroom and at home. If we can assist you in your book choice, please contact us at firstname.lastname@example.org.
For the loved one in your life who has Autism, choose books that are appropriate to their reading level (ask the parents if you don’t know, they will be so happy to share this information) and especially geared to their special interest. I remember the year my own loved one was into plumbing books and was super thrilled to get a manual on how bathrooms were plumbed. She held onto that and read it for years!! Movies are often a big hit, ask mom and dad if your recipient has a favorite. Again these are all activities that will be helpful when the holidays get to be too much.
PUZZLES/LEGOS and GAMES
Puzzles are usually a hit with our especially talented visual learners with autism. Choose the puzzle that will excite as well as challenge the recipient. Your friend with autism may need to be excused from the holiday group for a while and working on a puzzle OR Lego activity will be comforting.
Games on the other hand can be a wonderful way to work on social skills! We had a blast not long ago with a game night where we played Pictionary, and Pie Face! We want to encourage all to play and to learn to be good winners and losers, take turns, and enjoy laughter with friends. However, remember that it is ok too if your friend with autism prefers to watch. They will still be a part of the activity.
For the little guys a trampoline or trike, ball pit or sit and spin will be lots of fun. An adolescent or adult may prefer an exercise bike, exercise video game, or even light weights. Exercise as we all know is also a great stress reliever.
GIFT CARDS FOR ACTIVITIES
Just like all of our children, our friends with autism will probably have a favorite place to visit. The aquarium or zoo, museum or gym, movie theater or park. Purchasing admission to one of these may be a fun idea. Just be prepared for the question WHEN? This gift may need to come with a calendar! Setting up a play date for these activities will only enhance social skills, so think outside the box!
Does your friend with autism get upset with surprises? Do they open a gift and frankly state “I don’t want this!!” Perhaps in these cases it would be good to give a gift card and the recipient will then be able to have the gift they choose.
THE GIFT OF TIME
Wherever possible give the gift of time. Maybe you could make a special visual recipe set and bake some cookies for the holidays with your loved one. Or take a stroll to see decorations in an outdoor mall along with an “I Spy” card to check off. Whatever that gift may be will take just a bit of prep work to make the activity predictable and understandable and create a very special memory for you both.
Don’t forget Mom and Dad may truly treasure the gift of time as well! Caring for a child with autism can be all consuming so we need to remind families that it is ok to have a night to themselves whether it be for a soak in the tub while you take their child for a walk or the parents have a date night. Simple gestures are often the very best.
Whatever you choose we hope you have fun with your search! We know your kindness will be appreciated.